• Celibacy Retreats

Radiant Living Sanctuary Retreats

A PHASE OF CONSCIOUS CELIBACY
A Return to the Heart. A Reset for the Soul.
What if you could enter retreat without stepping away from your life?
Celibacy Retreats are private, personalized journeys into conscious celibacy, contemplation and sacred connection—created for singles or couples who feel called to turn inward, gather their energy and listen more deeply.
Your retreat can take different forms:

Retreat in Ashland, Oregon

Stay for a month or longer in your own private studio, surrounded by the beauty of Southern Oregon. We offer studio rentals. Live simply, work remotely if needed, and allow spaciousness, nature and solitude to become part of your practice.

Retreat on Kauaʻi, Hawaii

Book your own island vacation and weave your personal retreat into the beauty and elemental presence of Kauaʻi, complemented by private in-person intensives with Xian.
There is no need to disappear from the world.
Instead, you create enough space to hear what becomes audible when life grows quieter.
To meet desire differently.
To deepen intimacy without grasping.
To return energy to the body.
To rediscover the heart.

Retreat at Home

Create a private sanctuary within your own life, supported by online guidance while continuing to work and tend to what matters. You can choose between weekly spiritual guidance or remote personal intensives to enhance your evolution.

CELIBACY RETREATS
A Return to the Heart. A Reset for the Soul.

What if retreat did not require leaving your life behind?

Celibacy Retreats offers a different kind of sanctuary—one that allows you to step inward while remaining connected to the life you are living.

Choose to enter the retreat from the privacy and comfort of your own home, or create a deeper immersion with a one-month or longer private studio stay in Ashland, Oregon.

Rather than a traditional group retreat, this is a spacious period of intentional solitude, contemplation and conscious celibacy, held within the quiet rhythm of your own days and supported through private online guidance.

You may continue working online, tending to your responsibilities and moving through ordinary life—while something extraordinary is given space to unfold within.

There is time for silence.
For meditation.
For nature and long walks.
For listening to the body.
For meeting desire without immediately acting upon it.
For gathering your energy back into yourself.

For couples, the retreat can become a sacred pause from habitual sexuality and an invitation to rediscover intimacy through presence, tenderness and the heart.

For singles, it offers the rare luxury of turning deeply inward—without needing to seek, pursue or perform for connection.

The Ashland option offers the added beauty of a private studio and garden sanctuary, allowing you to create your own rhythm of retreat while still having the freedom to work remotely and remain connected to the practical needs of your life.

This is not an escape from life.

It is an opportunity to discover how life feels when your energy becomes quieter, more concentrated and more deeply your own.

A return to the heart.
A reset for the soul.
A sacred time to remember yourself.

Private online guidance throughout your retreat.

Facilitated by Xian Prem, Ph.D.
Stargate Institute

The Sacred Art of Intimacy Within.

Every retreat is individually shaped around where you are in your life and what is calling you inward.
Curious whether this is for you?
I invite you to a private Radiance Activation Call to connect, explore what you are seeking, and discover what kind of retreat might serve you.
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Enter the Temple of Your Radiance


A 1-hour monthly meditation transmission to awaken divine remembrance within you.

Through sacred connection practices, gentle yogic movement, affirmative prayer, a crystalline breathe light journey, and heart-based sharing, you’ll be guided into the alchemy of your own light.

These meditations are held in sacred space by facilitators who transmit frequencies of inner union, somatic awareness, and soul communion—inviting you to embody love, breathe light, dissolve illusion, and rise as your radiant sovereign Self.

Feel the pulse of the sacred. Come home to the star within.

First Sunday of each month, noon PDT

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Meet the Person Behind the Scenes


Founder, Author, Licensed Minister, Multi-Dimensional Coach

Dr. Xian Prem is a scholar, mystic, and guide for women awakening to their radiant potential and sovereignty. With a Ph.D. in Psychology and over 30 years of meditation, yoga, and tantra practice—including monastic training with saints in India—she weaves ancient wisdom with modern healing arts.

Dr. Xian empowers women to activate light codes within the body, supporting graceful aging, emotional sovereignty, and high-frequency embodiment. Her work bridges Eastern and Western psychology, quantum energy, and sacred movement, guiding high achieving clients into their unleashing their potential and teaching certification trainings for holistic professionals from trauma to transcendence.

She is the founder of Stargate Teachings in 7 Sacred Rhythms, author of several educational books and songwriter for LumaVara Music and the visionary behind the White Tantric Star, a novel and multidimensional Tantric Celibacy teaching path blending lightbody activation, sensual radiance, and crystalline consciousness for a new era of feminine leadership and soul-aligned living.

Years of living, studying, and teaching in ashrams in India, continued ashram life style at home, guiding students online towards awakening, honoring both asceticism and sensual flow of energy, I feel called to invite you to the sacred and ancient kundalini practices of India.

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